Well, pretty sure I am a human pin cushion! Wow! The MRI guided biopsy took a little longer than expected because the suspicious spot on the left side is high up and not easy to reach. Started out flat on my stomach but that wasn't working, repositioned, then the fun began. I am very glad that procedure is out of the way! The pathology test is due back in two days, cross your fingers and toes that the spot is nothing.....pleeeeaaase be nothing!!!!
Time for a little cat nap.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Monday, April 14, 2008
An Idea
A lot of you've asked how you can help me and I think I might have a way!
Over the last several years I've donated blood every 56 days at the local Red Cross blood drive. With my cancer diagnosis I am no longer eligible to donate blood. Giving blood is a good way to help the community and it is FREE (just takes 1-2 hours of your day).
What do you think about donating to help your local communities since I can't do it anymore? I know not everyone is eligible, but if you can donate that would be fantastic! I've included the link for the Red Cross, www.givelife.org, which has a zip code search for locations near you.
No pressure to donate, just an idea!
Over the last several years I've donated blood every 56 days at the local Red Cross blood drive. With my cancer diagnosis I am no longer eligible to donate blood. Giving blood is a good way to help the community and it is FREE (just takes 1-2 hours of your day).
What do you think about donating to help your local communities since I can't do it anymore? I know not everyone is eligible, but if you can donate that would be fantastic! I've included the link for the Red Cross, www.givelife.org, which has a zip code search for locations near you.
No pressure to donate, just an idea!
Friday, April 11, 2008
Friday...yippy!!!!
Made it to Friday, yes! I decided to look back at a few of our Maui photos to get my head back in a good "space". Eddy and I both agree Maui was our best vacation ever! We went to Lanai and rented a 4wheel drive Jeep Wranger, very cool. I kind of look tan in the photo but that is only because I am very dirty!
I am not going to post anything about the "big, white elephant" in the room today, just normal stuff.
Tomorrow Eddy is working on his motorcycle trailer, painting it, installing stuff, etc. I plan on working in the front yard....needs a MAJOR overhaul. Want to do a little weed killing, put down weed stop fabric and some kind of mulch. If I get that project done, then I can work on pulling out the rest of the ivy. I will also mow the lawn (weed patch).
Oscar (our geriatric cat) is at the groomer today get shaved because of bad mats. Poor kitty. I am getting him a sweater to wear at night so he isn't cold....I think it is lavender....he is going to look very fem!
I wish everyone a great weekend!
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow
Yesterday was one of the worst days I've had since being diagnosed. I can't describe how sad I was and it was coming out in tears all day (the sobbing kind). I even cried when we were at lunch and I hate to cry in front of other people. What a day! As always, Eddy was my rock. I even got tears and mascara on his shirt first thing in the morning but he didn't care (kind of blends in with the paint). When he holds me I can hear his heart beating and it is very calming.
Today I am evil, but it didn't start out that way. I think I need to eat first thing in the morning because it makes me very cranky. I yelled at Eddy over the phone, hung up on him and I've been swearing like a sailor. Wish I had a sound proof box I could go into for some screaming! I plan on taking a walk in a few minutes to clear my head and start my day over. Can't scream walking around the neighborhood because they might bring me one of those white jackets that hook in the back!
Tomorrow is going to be a better day. First it is Friday and second I am willing myself into a great mood! I hope we can go do something fun this weekend....we've worked on estimates the last two weekends with no fun time.
Today I am evil, but it didn't start out that way. I think I need to eat first thing in the morning because it makes me very cranky. I yelled at Eddy over the phone, hung up on him and I've been swearing like a sailor. Wish I had a sound proof box I could go into for some screaming! I plan on taking a walk in a few minutes to clear my head and start my day over. Can't scream walking around the neighborhood because they might bring me one of those white jackets that hook in the back!
Tomorrow is going to be a better day. First it is Friday and second I am willing myself into a great mood! I hope we can go do something fun this weekend....we've worked on estimates the last two weekends with no fun time.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Cancer Do's & Don'ts
I found this on the internet and made major changes since it was geared for kids with cancer. My thought is the information will help all of you.
Cancer patients often find it hard to talk frankly to family and friends. They find that some friends can't handle their situation and never call, they find that someone they hardly knew before becomes their best friend and helper. Family and friends in turn sometimes just don't know the right thing to say to or do for someone with cancer.
SOME IDEAS TO HELP YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH CANCER
Clean their house for when they come home from the hospital or pay to have someone clean the house.
Get them a gift certificate for video rentals or groceries. You can even pick up groceries.
Drop off puzzle, books, magazines, etc. After surgery you need to take it easy, which is hard for a lot of people to do. Having a puzzle, books or magazines kind of gives you the excuse to take it easy.
Bring a favorite food or a meal. A family friend may arrange with other friends to drop off meals. Sign up and then actually do it! Do not call the day you are scheduled for meal drop off and make an excuse....order Chinese or something.
Send cards and silly, fun things (snail mail is great). Humor is the best medicine.
Suggest a little bit of exercise and then come with us! It is much easier to get motivated if you have a friend there with you. Walks are good!
Don't take "we don't need any help" as the final response...ask again. Don't say, "call if you need something" , they probably won't call. It is hard to say "yes, I need help". A better way to help might be to say, "I want to come clean your toilets, will 2:00 pm work for you?" or on Tuesday I am coming to do your laundry, will that be okay?" or "I want to drop off a a meal this week, does Friday fit your schedule?"
Emotional support. Just make a point to call, once a week or every two weeks. Sending an email works as well. When you have cancer you feel alone, it feels good to know someone is thinking of you.
It is much more comfortable if people just deal with cancer head on and acknowledged that something horrible is happening. It is okay to say "this sucks" , because it does.
Cancer patients often find it hard to talk frankly to family and friends. They find that some friends can't handle their situation and never call, they find that someone they hardly knew before becomes their best friend and helper. Family and friends in turn sometimes just don't know the right thing to say to or do for someone with cancer.
SOME IDEAS TO HELP YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH CANCER
Clean their house for when they come home from the hospital or pay to have someone clean the house.
Get them a gift certificate for video rentals or groceries. You can even pick up groceries.
Drop off puzzle, books, magazines, etc. After surgery you need to take it easy, which is hard for a lot of people to do. Having a puzzle, books or magazines kind of gives you the excuse to take it easy.
Bring a favorite food or a meal. A family friend may arrange with other friends to drop off meals. Sign up and then actually do it! Do not call the day you are scheduled for meal drop off and make an excuse....order Chinese or something.
Send cards and silly, fun things (snail mail is great). Humor is the best medicine.
Suggest a little bit of exercise and then come with us! It is much easier to get motivated if you have a friend there with you. Walks are good!
Don't take "we don't need any help" as the final response...ask again. Don't say, "call if you need something" , they probably won't call. It is hard to say "yes, I need help". A better way to help might be to say, "I want to come clean your toilets, will 2:00 pm work for you?" or on Tuesday I am coming to do your laundry, will that be okay?" or "I want to drop off a a meal this week, does Friday fit your schedule?"
Emotional support. Just make a point to call, once a week or every two weeks. Sending an email works as well. When you have cancer you feel alone, it feels good to know someone is thinking of you.
It is much more comfortable if people just deal with cancer head on and acknowledged that something horrible is happening. It is okay to say "this sucks" , because it does.
Good Day!
I was in Los Gatos this morning picking up time cards from the crew and decided to call Jennifer and Sherry (worked with them at Norvell) about lunch. Instead of eating, we got some exercise! It was wonderful to see both of them again and good for me since I was feeling a bit lonely this week. Thank you Jennifer and Sherry!!!!
Have a little project I am working on in the evenings....one of those smocks you put on at the doctor's that actually looks good and fits. The last visit to the surgeon was the final straw! I was supposed to put the gown on with the opening in the front, which I did, but it was so big I could have wrapped it to the back and tied it closed. I found some fantastic material and will whip myself up something that looks better (at least that is my plan, I kind of don't finish some projects I start).
Well, off to finish payroll and enter bills so I can print checks.
Have a little project I am working on in the evenings....one of those smocks you put on at the doctor's that actually looks good and fits. The last visit to the surgeon was the final straw! I was supposed to put the gown on with the opening in the front, which I did, but it was so big I could have wrapped it to the back and tied it closed. I found some fantastic material and will whip myself up something that looks better (at least that is my plan, I kind of don't finish some projects I start).
Well, off to finish payroll and enter bills so I can print checks.
Thursday, April 3, 2008
MRI Scheduled
MRI guided biopsy is scheduled for April 15th at noon. My sister, Suzanne, is going with me this time. Eddy needs a break with the long appointments. This one will be well over an hour and he has already sat through enough lately.
Genetic test results are due back around 4/17, if all goes well with the insurance (could be a bit later). Geez, I hope this doesnt' come back positive....I could sure use a break.
On a side note, the guy that broke into our house in October is pleading innocent to the burglary charges, so now we get to testify on 5/5. Crazy, he was caught red-handed by us.
Time to get back to work!
Genetic test results are due back around 4/17, if all goes well with the insurance (could be a bit later). Geez, I hope this doesnt' come back positive....I could sure use a break.
On a side note, the guy that broke into our house in October is pleading innocent to the burglary charges, so now we get to testify on 5/5. Crazy, he was caught red-handed by us.
Time to get back to work!
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